
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Celebration my dad birthday....
Over the weekend I meet my family for lunch to celebration my dad birthday…below are the photo…


Thursday, April 23, 2009
Cristella New Hairstyles
Sunday 19 April 09 - super Hot day
Oh my God, this weekend is so HOT hot HOT very hot, this few day is really warm, so my dear friend do remember to drink a lot a lot of water…
So on Sunday, bring my 2C out to shopping centre to play water… the time that we go, the water playground is close. As Sembawang shopping centre the water playground is only open from 11am-2pm then 5pm – 8pm… so Cecelia din get to play… but we still play at the dry playground… can see Cecelia is a bit sad that she din get to play the water playground….
So sorry Cecelia…. I will try to remember the time of the water playground de…
So on Sunday, bring my 2C out to shopping centre to play water… the time that we go, the water playground is close. As Sembawang shopping centre the water playground is only open from 11am-2pm then 5pm – 8pm… so Cecelia din get to play… but we still play at the dry playground… can see Cecelia is a bit sad that she din get to play the water playground….
So sorry Cecelia…. I will try to remember the time of the water playground de…
18 April 2009 - Lunch at my house
Over the weekend, Shirley, Wan Ying and Li Ling come over to my house to see my adored 2C, (Cecelia and Cristella)…. Therefore, from morning I busy going to market to get fresh food to cook lunch for them… See my 2C also helping me to prepare lunch…
Monday, April 20, 2009
An E-mail that really move my heart...
Today i receive an E-mail, here is what the e-mail:
Please spare some time to read. Worth the read till the end....
MARRIAGE
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this.
It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...
I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more.
Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
Please spare some time to read. Worth the read till the end....
MARRIAGE
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her! With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Dew about my wife's divorce conditions... She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time.. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this.
It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.
I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...
I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any more.
Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.
At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card.. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank, blah..blah..blah. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
Getting ready for Cecelia 2nd Birthday!!
At first, we were thinking of bringing Cecelia and cristella to cruise to have Cecelia birthday there… Holiday cruise for her 2nd Birthday…. However, when we want to book the curies, is all full…. As cristella got no passport, so by the time the passport is ready, the cruise is full house for that day that we want.
So too bad, seen we desire Cecelia to play all day, I was thinking of bringing her to playground whole day… seen she like to play at playground…. West Coast Park! However, her mei mei Cristella will be very tire under the hot sun…. So I book a room at downtown , as downtown also got lot of fun thing for Cecelia to play, and for her mei mei also get to rest and play…. eXplorerkid here I come!!...
Seen I book a room, i may as well do BBQ and birthday party for Cecelia… right? That is where my idea comes in…. haha I love BBQ…
So now a day busy looking for food, deco, helium balloon and other small small thing for my dearly Cecelia birthday party…..
For the food, I am getting from BBQ Wholesale, as there are the only food catering that are allow to be in at downtown… also it Halal…
I was thinking of getting helium balloon, those balloons that will fly or float de…. I want the room to be fill with those balloon, maybe I will get 10 helium balloons and 1 Happy birthday and Barney balloon…. As Cecelia love barney!!!....
Also for the deco, I am looking for Barney party deco…. Hope to find those cute cute, so that when Cecelia looks at it, she will be very happy….
For her Birthday cake, will be primadeli barney cake ba, if not will be Swensen's ice-cream cake…. Then I will hand bake some cup-cake for her too….. Then maybe will have barney jelly cake, the barney jelly will look like this:

So too bad, seen we desire Cecelia to play all day, I was thinking of bringing her to playground whole day… seen she like to play at playground…. West Coast Park! However, her mei mei Cristella will be very tire under the hot sun…. So I book a room at downtown , as downtown also got lot of fun thing for Cecelia to play, and for her mei mei also get to rest and play…. eXplorerkid here I come!!...
Seen I book a room, i may as well do BBQ and birthday party for Cecelia… right? That is where my idea comes in…. haha I love BBQ…
So now a day busy looking for food, deco, helium balloon and other small small thing for my dearly Cecelia birthday party…..
For the food, I am getting from BBQ Wholesale, as there are the only food catering that are allow to be in at downtown… also it Halal…
I was thinking of getting helium balloon, those balloons that will fly or float de…. I want the room to be fill with those balloon, maybe I will get 10 helium balloons and 1 Happy birthday and Barney balloon…. As Cecelia love barney!!!....
Also for the deco, I am looking for Barney party deco…. Hope to find those cute cute, so that when Cecelia looks at it, she will be very happy….
For her Birthday cake, will be primadeli barney cake ba, if not will be Swensen's ice-cream cake…. Then I will hand bake some cup-cake for her too….. Then maybe will have barney jelly cake, the barney jelly will look like this:

Is there anything that I miss out? Do let me know…. First time open Chalet… hee
Monday, March 23, 2009
2 C new Toy....
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Cristella Is 9 month old
Here are some photo that took on 11 March 2009 which mean Cristella is 9 month only three more month to her 1 year old….

Monday, March 9, 2009
cecelia and cristella
Sembawang Shopping Centre - Splash Park
My Company Family Day BBQ at “The Grange ford”
It was my first time eating sure a high quality, excellent food for BBQ, as normally BBQ is those Satay, Otah, Chicken wing, Sausage, Prawns, Hotdog, Crab Stick, Marshmellow and other thing, not so expensive.
This time our BBQ have Sausage, the sausage cost 9.50++ for only five sausages OMG! But it really very delicious maybe that is why so expensive. Then we also have Lamb Chop, Beef Steak, Squid, Big Prawns, Bottle Drinks, wine and other, cannot remember le…. I love the beef steak, wow it so nice… All this has to thank to Our Chef Chou Yung, he wake up very early to prepare the food…. Here are the photo take on the day.

This time our BBQ have Sausage, the sausage cost 9.50++ for only five sausages OMG! But it really very delicious maybe that is why so expensive. Then we also have Lamb Chop, Beef Steak, Squid, Big Prawns, Bottle Drinks, wine and other, cannot remember le…. I love the beef steak, wow it so nice… All this has to thank to Our Chef Chou Yung, he wake up very early to prepare the food…. Here are the photo take on the day.
See Cecelia, every time when we prepare the food she will sleep, once the food is cook and ready to eat she will wake up without you calling her.

Friday, February 27, 2009
Recession become workaholic to people?
Now the world is having recession mean downturn for many people, so I am here also trying to save more money, who know what happened next? As today my friend told me that, her friend of friend lost the job, because the company closes down….
It very hurt and sad to hear this news as she with her colleague went for lunch and after lunch then boss ask everyone for meeting and the boss say, “Here is your 1 month pay, and now you have to pack your staff and go home” OMG
During this time think a lot of people will lost job, as almost everyday I can hear or see from new paper that people lost their jobs. Feel sad but hope those people who lost their job will get up soon. May god be with you and bless you
Who will know I am the next one. Therefore, I must work and study hard. Err; Hope this will not happened to ME…. Touch wood touch wood….
Also will like to THANK YOU to my friend who has helped me to check and amend my report, you know who you are, so no need me to spell it out... I am thankful to you for your time and effort….
I will try to save money and TRY not to spend money on unnecessary thing… hmmm, maybe I will go look for a part-time job….
I want to change my shopaholic to workaholic… Use to be workaholic and half shopaholic, seen marry I become more shopaholic than to workaholic, so now I am going back to my workaholic life! I want earn more money…
It very hurt and sad to hear this news as she with her colleague went for lunch and after lunch then boss ask everyone for meeting and the boss say, “Here is your 1 month pay, and now you have to pack your staff and go home” OMG
During this time think a lot of people will lost job, as almost everyday I can hear or see from new paper that people lost their jobs. Feel sad but hope those people who lost their job will get up soon. May god be with you and bless you
Who will know I am the next one. Therefore, I must work and study hard. Err; Hope this will not happened to ME…. Touch wood touch wood….
Also will like to THANK YOU to my friend who has helped me to check and amend my report, you know who you are, so no need me to spell it out... I am thankful to you for your time and effort….
I will try to save money and TRY not to spend money on unnecessary thing… hmmm, maybe I will go look for a part-time job….
I want to change my shopaholic to workaholic… Use to be workaholic and half shopaholic, seen marry I become more shopaholic than to workaholic, so now I am going back to my workaholic life! I want earn more money…
Friday, February 20, 2009
English Skill
I want to improve both my English and memory. So how am I going to improve my English? Hmmm, to my friend please help me to correct my English when I talk, write, type... like on msn, sms and when on the phone with you… Some time I really feel sad and so hate myself that why I din learn hard for my English during my school time…
English
I start up this blog because I want to improve my English skill, therefore I am going to speak, read and write more English, and must listen more…
Memory
So how can I improve my memory?
Maybe I will try this few:
1. Eat foods rich in Omega 3 - studies have shown that Omega 3 improves cognitive functioning. Once the brain has been drained of water, most of what is left is Omega
2. Drink lots of water - Our brains are made up of 70% water; drink the recommended 2 liters a day.
3. Exercise regularly - Getting a good oxygen flow to the brain is essential. Pick an exercise plan based on your current level of fitness and start small. Please consult with your doctor before taking up any rigorous form of exercise.
4. Stimulate your brain - Give it a good workout. Sudoku/Kakuro or Brain Training for the Nintendo Wii is great for this.
5. Sleep well - studies show that sleeping helps trigger areas in the brain that lead to a better memory. Set a definite time to wake and only go to sleep when you are tired.
6. Learn the storyline memory system - say you have to pick eggs, milk and bread at the shop after work. Create a story in your mind linking all 3 and run through it a few times. Eg. You are cutting a freshly baked loaf of bread and the floor begins to shake, a huge egg comes in through the door, you defend yourself with a super soaker water gun filled with milk. The crazier the better!
So I am going to eat more Omega 3 food, like Ginkgo Nuts, Steam Fish, walnut, anymore?As now, I am trying my best to learn my English and to improve my memory. Any idea what can help to improve my English and memory please let me know…
English
I start up this blog because I want to improve my English skill, therefore I am going to speak, read and write more English, and must listen more…
Memory
So how can I improve my memory?
Maybe I will try this few:
1. Eat foods rich in Omega 3 - studies have shown that Omega 3 improves cognitive functioning. Once the brain has been drained of water, most of what is left is Omega
2. Drink lots of water - Our brains are made up of 70% water; drink the recommended 2 liters a day.
3. Exercise regularly - Getting a good oxygen flow to the brain is essential. Pick an exercise plan based on your current level of fitness and start small. Please consult with your doctor before taking up any rigorous form of exercise.
4. Stimulate your brain - Give it a good workout. Sudoku/Kakuro or Brain Training for the Nintendo Wii is great for this.
5. Sleep well - studies show that sleeping helps trigger areas in the brain that lead to a better memory. Set a definite time to wake and only go to sleep when you are tired.
6. Learn the storyline memory system - say you have to pick eggs, milk and bread at the shop after work. Create a story in your mind linking all 3 and run through it a few times. Eg. You are cutting a freshly baked loaf of bread and the floor begins to shake, a huge egg comes in through the door, you defend yourself with a super soaker water gun filled with milk. The crazier the better!
So I am going to eat more Omega 3 food, like Ginkgo Nuts, Steam Fish, walnut, anymore?As now, I am trying my best to learn my English and to improve my memory. Any idea what can help to improve my English and memory please let me know…
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
Stroller
WOW, today on net saw this Stroller, in love with it.... it can have both my girl on it... here is the photo, not sure singapore got sell a not... looking for it, if it not ex will buy.. haha, anyone know where selling this type of Stroller? i am looking of it... Do let me know if you found this Stroller selling some where... Sit-n-Stand LX Stroller, dun you think the stroller is brillant and very helpful to the parents with two kids!!
here are the website:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kownmtwiOR8&feature=PlayList&p=0E145F9CCE7FAA35&index=0&playnext=1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ullZ3BWntI0&feature=PlayList&p=0E145F9CCE7FAA35&index=2
here are the website:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kownmtwiOR8&feature=PlayList&p=0E145F9CCE7FAA35&index=0&playnext=1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ullZ3BWntI0&feature=PlayList&p=0E145F9CCE7FAA35&index=2
Monday, February 2, 2009
Company CNY Lunch
Today I had my Chinese New Year Company lunch at Prima Tower Revolving Restaurant. The Restaurant establishment is the only other revolving restaurant in
Again, here to shard some photo with you guy!! The food there is very nice… Waiting to go again….





Sunday, February 1, 2009
CNY Visiting....
Over the weekend we went to 拜年, Here are some photo to shard.


When at Shirley house, cecelia is not feeling well... while we having snack cecelia vomit, OMG... i was so pai seng, as i make a mess at her house... cecelia ever vomit 2 time at her house... so we rush home at she keep on vomit, after we reach home cecelia still feel sick, eat and vomit, vomit and cry...
untill about 7pm GL and me bring her to KKH to see doctor as we worry it Rotavirus, as Rotavirus is one of the most common causes of diarrhea, and severe infection (rotavirus gastroenteritis) is the leading cause of severe, dehydrating diarrhea in infants and young children.
After we reach KKH cecelia stop vomit, then when it our time to see the doctor see look fine, but got fever 38C, so the doctor give her paracetamol... so got to stay there for an hour to see cecelia will vomit anot..
At 11.15pm, 2 time to see the doctor. Cecelia have pass the test.... No vomit, so she can go home ley... so till now she din vomit and she is back to normal... So guy, not to worry wow....
But after visit KKH, the virus have pass to me... Now it me who is down with flu... haiz....


When at Shirley house, cecelia is not feeling well... while we having snack cecelia vomit, OMG... i was so pai seng, as i make a mess at her house... cecelia ever vomit 2 time at her house... so we rush home at she keep on vomit, after we reach home cecelia still feel sick, eat and vomit, vomit and cry...untill about 7pm GL and me bring her to KKH to see doctor as we worry it Rotavirus, as Rotavirus is one of the most common causes of diarrhea, and severe infection (rotavirus gastroenteritis) is the leading cause of severe, dehydrating diarrhea in infants and young children.
After we reach KKH cecelia stop vomit, then when it our time to see the doctor see look fine, but got fever 38C, so the doctor give her paracetamol... so got to stay there for an hour to see cecelia will vomit anot..
At 11.15pm, 2 time to see the doctor. Cecelia have pass the test.... No vomit, so she can go home ley... so till now she din vomit and she is back to normal... So guy, not to worry wow....
But after visit KKH, the virus have pass to me... Now it me who is down with flu... haiz....
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